If you’re considering a summer trip to Turkey, you need to keep the following in mind: In spite of any propagandic notion from the American media that Turkey is Westernizing, the sex roles remain nearly as strict and traditional since Ataturk’s time. Instead of one-night stands you have six-month stands, where you commit before fornicating.Turkish men are also not allowed to “pick up” Turkish girls because word may get back to their relatives, in which case they’d be shamed by their elders.Just months earlier in the very square I was about to meet my Tinder date at, a bomb went off killing five people and wounding 36. As we walked I noticed there seemed to be a lot more guys in the street than girls. And, as the song goes, if she wants it, you gotta give it to her.I was paranoid, but more excited, I had been dating super hot white girls in Ukraine, but now it was time for some Arab women. Coming from Ukraine, where it seems there are more women in the street than men, it was a shock. At first I thought she was talking to me, but I looked over my shoulder and saw she was talking to the guys sitting behind us. “They kept staring and looking at me weird.” Was this girl just a bitch or do girls have to be bitches to get guys to leave them alone in Turkey? Afterwards, I made the excuse that I needed to check something on my computer and that my (Airbnb) apartment was really close. Getting back to my apartment, I found out I had read the situation correctly.As long as these guardians are around, she won’t entertain your approach. You won’t want to do much besides sit under the air conditioner or go in the water, but even the latter provides little relief.This is a strong statement, but the time I had in Istanbul, Turkey was absolutely amazing.The best part is, they are full of the Arab women who want to break free of their cultures and that is why I would say Istanbul, Turkey the easiest place to bang Arab women in the world.
Younger girls in clubs are heavily guarded by male friends and relatives (one night I was threatened by a Turkish guy in Turkish when I approached a Turkish girl).Tinder came to be when I was in a committed relationship with a man, who I came to accept after 3 years of to-ing and fro-ing that just wasn’t right for me.I remember seeing one of my best male friends swiping this way and that way on his phone long before I knew what Tinder really was, and thinking to myself that the world must be coming to an end, completely unaware that I, one day in the not so distant future, would be doing just that in the comfort of my own home, in my pajamas, lazing on the couch.I slept with plenty of women from plenty of different countries and it wasn’t difficult.I know that Turkish people don’t consider themselves Arab, but they are Middle Eastern and Istanbul is full of people from Arab countries.